An established connection was aborted by the......??

hey all, my first post..

yup, i'm having connection problems with Smart ftp. i'm trying to attach to my earthlink DSL via my netgear router. the router has up to date software. i turned off ZA and Nav and nada! i have the sp2 windows firewall up and it's checked for smart dtp to get through. still----nada!

i tried entering my router ip and nope there to.

i get this message: "An established connection was aborted by the software in your host machine"!

anyway, anybody got a clue as to what i'm doing wrong---if i am? i'm using WINXP PRO SP2,,,,,THX

ok--i got it. the address bar wanted my ISP ftp address, not my destination folder.........! i've always been a noob at ftp but i gotta learn it now----getting into a larger web hosting deal.......thx again