Please Help!

I want to know, what do I do after I connect, I know how to upload the files, but how do I make the site appear, and not do just a directory...

i guess by "how do I make the site appear" you mean a web-site that can be reached by a http-browser (like ie, opera or firefox)? well, you need to know the correct http-address to your ftp-directory. always remember: http and ftp are two different protocols which are mapped over the server's directory structure. meaning: in general, one is not able to conclude from your ftp server / path you upload your files to, to the correct http-address of your web-site. if you have any troubles figuring your web-site's address out, contact your web-space provider.