Cannot Login

Resolving host name flirtatious.org...
Connecting to (flirtatious.org) -> IP: 72.36.155.82 PORT: 21
Connected to (flirtatious.org) -> Time = 10ms
Socket connected waiting for login sequence.
Cannot login waiting to retry (30s)...

thats what it says.
how can i fix this?

There is no ftp server running on this host. Please contact your web hosting provider for the correct host name.

C:\Users\mb>ftp flirtatious.org
> ftp: connect :Connection refused